A Mess?

     How do you see your life? Maybe the question should read more like how do you look at your life? Are you scrutinizing your every step, noticing every wrong turn or bad choice instead of allowing yourself the view from a distance? Why are you being so hard on yourself? Give yourself some room to breathe, room to move. No one and no life is perfect. Life does not go the way we have it pictured in our heads. It does not stick to our plan. Life has a life of its own. It is unpredictable. So instead of looking at our lives and seeing how out of wack we think they are in accordance to that idea we have in our head of how things are supposed to be...(that is only a rough draft for how we would like to see things go) make room for spontaneity. Don't be so serious, relax. Things will work out how they are meant to. Life is something we have no control of. We have control over how we choose to view our life. Our scattered messy-ness is proof that we are living life. Our chaos is evidence of perfection at work-a perfect, crazy, mess that is life full of living. Take it as it comes, do the best you can, breathe, smile and most of all enjoy this messy beautiful life.